“Passion is not a plan. Passion is a feeling, and feelings change.”
When we seek “God’s calling,” are we seeking what we’re passionate about… or what we’re made for?
Every freshman at my college is required to take the “freshman core.” It’s comprised of four classes, one per every eight weeks, for the duration of the school year. The second in the series is essentials of behavioral science, more commonly referred to as “Essentials.”
That class sticks out in my memory for many reasons. My break out group (a cohort of maybe eight opinionated freshmen guided by a laid-back upperclassman) was particularly vocal. Our discussion time regularly dissolved into debate, and Essentials provided plenty of material.
One of the people who lectured, a professional counselor or something similar, spoke about self-actualization. In short, each person has two versions of themselves: the current version and an idealized version. The two circles slowly overlap as we grow and mature and all the rest. In the end, we should strive to have them overlap completely, so that our current self is identical to the idealized version.
Our professor meant no harm. She was simply sharing a key concept as it pertained to our subject. She never touted it as gospel.
But self-actualization unsettled me. It seemed so self-centered, so driven by personal gain. I was repulsed by it; and believe me, so was my break out group. We were all happy to share our thoughts on the subject, post-lecture.
At its root, self-actualization is the desire to attain full potential. It’s also a common first-world approach to life. “Are we really seeking God’s calling? Or are we desperately seeking importance and fulfillment?” asks Julie Roys, author of “Redeeming the Feminine Soul.” Passion is self and pleasure-oriented, but purpose is quite the opposite. It looks outward. It is others-oriented. And it tends to be long-term. It “gives more weight to meaning that pleasure,” one author noted.
Although passion can inform and fuel purpose, it cannot be its replacement. Although it’s often the inspiration for positive growth, passion is fickle; it “is a feeling, and feelings change.” For instance, I’m passionate about ending human trafficking. But what good would I do if I charged into Wellspring International and demanded that I be sent to the worst red light district in India? That decision would be driven by self-gratification… and the sense that I can end trafficking faster and more effectively than someone who is trained to do so. The people at Wellspring would tell me to go home and support them in a different way. A way that allows purpose to command and capitalize on passion, and direct both to the desired outcome.
Passion is healthy. Care about what matters, and care deeply. But purpose is what we all should invest careful time and thought into: Purpose that’s acted upon changes our world and the people in it. It’s Kingdom-building. In fact, I believe our purpose is identical to God’s calling; passion only fans that flame into a voracious, powerful fire.